It's not that I'm against D, I just don't think threats of any kind should be used as a tactic.
It's not a threat, it's jks standing up for what she believes, living with a code of conduct and accepting that love is a choice. It's also will build her self esteem. Most LBS lose it when they receive the bomb.
No one likes to be dumped. This is jks dumping her H and reversing the dynamics. Look at all the LBSs here trying to make their R work after being dump or cheated on.
I'm not advocatign D. I believe in M. However a M only works when two people both want it to.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."