It's not that I'm against D, I just don't think threats of any kind should be used as a tactic.

It's not a threat, it's jks standing up for what she believes, living with a code of conduct and accepting that love is a choice.
It's also will build her self esteem. Most LBS lose it when they receive the bomb.

No one likes to be dumped. This is jks dumping her H and reversing the dynamics. Look at all the LBSs here trying to make their R work after being dump or cheated on.

I'm not advocatign D. I believe in M. However a M only works when two people both want it to.


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