I see your emotions and feeling are leading you the past few days. Do this keeps you in limbo.....and limbo sux.
If I were to tell if you took a stand and said something like:
H, this M is not working for me anymore. I understand you have a connection with OW and I want you to be happy. I will have your possession in the garage for you to pick up.
Then you file for D have your H served with papers and start living your life for you and your kids.
and saying that might save your M, would you consider it?
Reality will hit him. Has what you've been doing working?
Something to think about. And don't think by doing the above will push him away more. That's a common misconception.
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