I know you'll probably have to start a new thread but let me get this out real fast.
No I didn't know you were LDS although I assumed that, Catholic, or maybe even Scientology. NO offense meant to any (I'm Catholic and have friends in LDS and in Scientology-we live near Hollywood)
but I understand more of where you are coming from.
My questiion os about his family. They are police AND LDS or what? I do not see inconsistencies but I wondered if you were saying that there was a split in his family about who was what.
(Ie some were police OR some were LDS but not both).
Just trying to get some background that fleshes it out for me. I DO know what you mean about it being freeing b/c if you were wrong or
IF your picture of what should be, is no longer applicable, then yes you are free to find or create
another picture.
The drag of it is if you feel that he IS the man for you and yet....is not there...
I hear you and I feel the agony of that concern- but I also sense a great awakening in you and a greater strength than you knew of.
It's there. Grab it, let it strengthen you,
and continue to put your marriage and anger and pain, in God's hands.
HE will guide AND strengthen you...if you let Him.
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