The thing is men are such simple creatures that if we can have 2 or 3 or 4 women pursuing us, why would we want to reduce that back down to 1?
I'd hate to think the only reason why men get M is because they don't have 2 or more women pursuing them...
There are a lot of men who choose not to be enticed by a seductress or a late night, drug induced flirtation...
Right, they are operating within appropriate relationship boundaries.
People engaged in affairs are not.
That's exactly why I see it as a dangerous and counterproductive idea (IMO) for Brit and Zig to "go there."
To use the addict analogy, it's a little like Brit and Zig bringing better and free drugs to the party, hoping to steal their binging WAS from the dealer at the other crack house. Seems like it may violate core boundaries of they want to be treated in and interact with others in committed relationships. It also conveys an odd message to spouse "If you cheat on me, I'll reward you by chasing you down and give you an even better time!"
Brit and Zig are special and valuable in their own right. You convey your value not by pursuing into the sewers. But, by knowing that you are hot and worthy and you won't have anything to do with the sewers nor do you want to commingle with people in the sewers. They can be hot as hell and desirable getting on with their lives without pursuing their WAS while they are in A mode.
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