If She Won't Stop the Affair?

[wont_stop]

Actually for GAL, I was mistaken thinking it was Get A Lawyer instead of Get A Life. :-/ Unintended newbie mistake.

I am trying to GAL. I took the kids out Friday night to a movie, then put them to bed. When my wife went out Saturday night I took the kids out to a public concert . Today I took the kids to Church and brunch. This is allowing her to go out with OM, so I feel used. I'm getting her to take the kids on Friday so I can go out with friends. But I feel like I am enabling her to do this.

One of the only parts of the DB process I don't get is when you have to spend time with the WW, like today when we went biking and got dinner with the kids. I kept up my confident smile and avoided saying too much in our conversations. But this is hard to keep up in the long term, and there were many times in our conversation where I was not sure what to say and how to say it. Of course the whole time I am thinking about what she is doing and how I wish we could go intp R. But I kept up the DB the whole evening. I can't tell you of the relief when I could go by myself to get the car. I could stop the act for a bit and felt better for it.