I just had to smile out loud... you in the shower... thinking about me... grin I mean my post... lol!!!!

Some of the best Rs I have are with X GFs. During my M I was very careful to not be excessive with flirting. But before and now... I can be right out there and raunchy with them and be very comfortable that... at the end of the day... they ain't comin' home with me... grin

I can definitely see that type of R with my W, in the future.

And why are they not coming home with me? Because at the end of the day, it's my choice to not be available. Even if the reality is, they don't want to be with me...

One day, I will find that certain someone and I will open myself up to that level of trust and commitment, again. I do not fear it.

That's the beautiful thing!

I'm glad you have found that place, Brit! cool

And you don't have to be closed to what ever may come in the future...