AHA!!!! You know when you have that AHA moment. I had it...in the shower thinking about KD's post on Zig's thread. I've been struggling because I want a relationship, I did enjoy getting out and dating again, I do find myself looking around and seeing men as attractive again.
But then I second guess myself am I doing this in response to H not responding to me? Am I doing this for attention or to feel good in response to a rejection from H?
But H is just another option. In fact he's less of an option. And all that happy, fun, light heartedness I felt a month and a half ago can be there again because it's not an either or. Either I work flirting with H or I begin dating. I'm just going to be me...happy, fun, flirty, cute me.
