more turtles by my side...

[keep_going]

I just had to bring over something that Bustorama just posted on someone else's thread that just put things so clearly for me re. moving on. Hope it helps anyone else:

"The thing that I think alot of people struggle with and some never really get is that moving on does not mean that you need to be cold, angry, vindictive, shut-off, shrill, an a-hole, bitchy. It's possible to be quite friendly with them, even flirty and sexy with them, even empathetic and listening. The difference is that it's not done with any intention of getting them back, of seducing them or whatever. You are just behaving that way because it is who you are and how you wish to interact with people generally."