Ok. So yesterday went ok. We had planned to watch a movie together after our son went to bed.
So the day started with her going to a family baby shower. One of her cousins had asked if I would watch her son as well so I had my son and her son for the day. Good times. I played games and watched movies with the boys then took them to the park
While at the park, the wife calls and says all the family was going to go to her moms house for a big family dinner. She had even said I could go. I chose not to go. Since this all happened she has said she feels awkward and uncomfortable when I am around her with her family.
While she was gone, I watched a movie and worked out. I have lost almost 30 pounds since this has happened
She gets home and I didn't 20 question her. I just asked her if her and our son had a food time
I put our son to bed and she was downstairs on the couch and asked me what movie we were going to watch. I let her pick
A few times during the movie I could tell she was tired. She was up well past her bedtime as well. I told her to go ahead and go to bed. Not with any sort of attitude. Just, "hey sweatie, I know you are tired. You can go ahead up to bed if you'd like"
She finished watching the movie with me and we chatted about it for a bit then she went to bed.
I thought it was a good day/good night.
Today has been ok. We have just had normal talk and she asked me if I would cook steaks tonight in the grill for dinner
I am thinking of buying a DVD program for " home therapy". I saw the name if it mentioned here on the forums somewhere but I forget the name. I bookmarked it on my computer. When she agreed to give it a few months she said she would do any books or programs I wanted but she did not want to go to traditional couples therapy. So I think this program might work or help
