The thing is men are such simple creatures that if we can have 2 or 3 or 4 women pursuing us, why would we want to reduce that back down to 1?
I'd hate to think the only reason why men get M is because they don't have 2 or more women pursuing them...
There are a lot of men who choose not to be enticed by a seductress or a late night, drug induced flirtation...
Busto, you wrote in NLW's thread about not doing these types of things, including being friends with the WAS as an attempt to win them back.
I agree without a doubt, that is very important.
On one hand, we're not here because we are OK with D. So ultimately, we are here to save our Ms. To "win our spouses back". Even LRT is a tactic, if we accept our spouses back after we move on.
I think that the proof of concept of DB really is those who don't save their Ms, but rather move on with their life in healthy ways.
As much as I used to think it's nutz for people who D, to be friends... now... I'm pretty sure that is, without a doubt, the BEST option...
