"IF you want some of dis... then u gotta ditch bimbo..."
HAHAHAHAHAHA
In my sitch my H is very very very against ever having an affair. He is very much a one woman guy. However I'm seeing him acting towards me in a way that he wouldn't act towards a woman if he's in a relationship and I think he struggles with that. However it is still a dangerous game to play, because as the H's get closer you have to manage expectations and you are of course opening yourself up to being rejected, to being an Ow yourself, etc.
I'm not advocating this approach. For me, I'm happy that H and I have a better friendship that we didn't have previously. And I think I'm ready for my own R that doesn't involve me having to seduce, lure, or be an Ow.
