Mind your boundaries first. Be as hot and sexy as you want, but don't be doing it to get him back while he is busy affairing.

The thing is men are such simple creatures that if we can have 2 or 3 or 4 women pursuing us, why would we want to reduce that back down to 1?

Let me ask you something. What made you have the change of heart about him? Was it because he was pursuing you and trying to seduce you?

Didn't think so.

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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