Yes, I know she's taking advantage of me. I was all ready to divorce only three weeks ago, but then I backed off. I've been trying to DB since then. RegretfulLA, I'm not sure what you expect me to do. I can't force her to stop the A. If I do that, it pushes her closer to the other man.
Actually, that's not always a bad idea, and for those that espouse this kind of approach, it's actually the entire point of it. When the romance and intrigue is stripped away, and suddenly they're dealing with each other's bad breath, bad habits and day-to-day monotony, it can actually be very effective.
