i've been following along since early morning, starsky.
thank you for this discussion - and you are not hijacking one bit. I WANT this discussion - not only for myself but for others too, and I'm more than happy for it to be here on my thread. So go all out, starsky. I think it's time to hack it all out. and yes please - post these challenges - i do want to explore this area.
the reason i haven't posted back yet or replied in anyway is because I need some time here.
last nights' small revelation triggered off some HUGE stuff for me - and i just need time to start breathing again.
about the "it's his path" - those were my words not h's. his words were "i'm not doing this TO you, I'm just doing it" and "this is who i really am, you just didn't realize it" - said in the 2-3 months after BD.
labug and starsky - please continue the dialog you started this morning - there are things that need to be said and i don't think that this is a time for "diplomacy"
as for me, i just want to listen for a bit - i talk too damn much!!
busting -come hijack too. in fact everybody - this has been an underlying tension on this board, probably always - which stand to take, which way to go -and i for one would love a really open honest discussion about it
thank you starsky - and i am really reading what you are writing
zig
Thank you, Zig -- and I hope today is better for you. Rather than listening to me "pontificate," maybe you can ask me some specific questions or challenge some specific assertions of mine when you're up for it. It's easier for me to respond to specifics -- just the way my male brain is wired.
I do appreciate your open-mindedness. I know this isn't easy.
