I completely understand where you are coming from. It's hard when we see someone that we love and care about so much hurting and being self destructive. It has taken me a long time to understand that we can't help them. I still struggle with it.
Their crap is their crap, and they truly are the only ones that can figure it out.
Things that seem obvious to us (and sometimes everyone else) they are oblivious to.
Logic really isn't in their vocabulary right now.
We have to stick to making ourselves happy. I know that can be tough. May I recommend a spa day?
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
