more turtles by my side...

[zig]

i've been following along since early morning, starsky.

thank you for this discussion - and you are not hijacking one bit. I WANT this discussion - not only for myself but for others too, and I'm more than happy for it to be here on my thread. So go all out, starsky. I think it's time to hack it all out. and yes please - post these challenges - i do want to explore this area.

the reason i haven't posted back yet or replied in anyway is because I need some time here.

last nights' small revelation triggered off some HUGE stuff for me - and i just need time to start breathing again.

about the "it's his path" - those were my words not h's. his words were "i'm not doing this TO you, I'm just doing it" and "this is who i really am, you just didn't realize it" - said in the 2-3 months after BD.

labug and starsky - please continue the dialog you started this morning - there are things that need to be said and i don't think that this is a time for "diplomacy"

as for me, i just want to listen for a bit - i talk too damn much!!

busting -come hijack too. in fact everybody - this has been an underlying tension on this board, probably always - which stand to take, which way to go -and i for one would love a really open honest discussion about it

thank you starsky - and i am really reading what you are writing


zig