AprilT, I think of wanting to change the past every day! There's a particular decision my H and I went different ways on a couple of years ago, that I know if I had done it differently -- well.....I didn't though. I can't beat myself up about it. I did the best I could at the time.

So.....let's do the best we can do at this time.

Weekends are excruciating for me too. So try to plan some things. It really does help.


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway