April, if you read my first thread...I was the WAS and he didn't start dating her until after I'd been dating and then I had a change of heart. It hurt like hell when he said he was moving in with her because I thought how could he move on so quickly but I also felt like I brought it on myself. But I decided I had to be okay with what's happening right now so I won't be walking around with hurt and anger. His choices don't reflect on what we had and I'm not responsible for his choices. Just mine.
GB I did have two dates with a guy about a month ago and I told H about it. I think it was counterproductive because I sorta played it off like it wasn't that big of a deal (and it wasn't) but thinking back the day after I told him was when he showed up unannounced and was all flirty that morning.
I really miss male company and attention and s&x let's be honest. I know that was a problem with me in the past that I used it for self esteem issues. I now find myself building up walls and almost going the other direction. I met a really nice guy with potential last week but when he made a slightly sexual flirty remark I think I over reacted and scared him off completely. GB I'd love to hear your thoughts on that!
