I have not posted in a while but am now caught up with your sitch and I am so sorry about how things are turning out. None of this makes any sense and who knows if it ever will.
All I can say right now is that your W is a fool.
We are here to listen if you feel like posting can help you process your feelings better at this time...
(((hugs)))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D