Oh thank you AJM and KD for answering that. I have been getting grief from 'friends' about me not setting boundaries (and deadlines). I just didn't see the need for them because when I do, it's coming across as controlling, which is EXACTLY what H's issue with me is right now (right or wrong - I'm working on it) and I hear about how I can't control whatever he is doing now and etc. If it causes harm to me or S mentally or physically, then yes - boundary time.
Me& h + S M: 13 t: 14
H moved 2/12. Own apt 05/12, EAs, PAs, gfriends, oh my! I'm done. 12/12
"I get knocked down, but I get up again.. you're never gonna keep me down" Chumbawumba
