And second, as for your sitch, look at your progress over the past weeks... and remember what cadet says, that time is your friend. H seemed to bounce into an R and you don't want him just to bounce back bc you did X...
you want him to make a solid decision...and that takes time.
((( )))
Love this... we do want solid decisions... yes... and it does take time. I look back on how every week I was thinking... has he changed his mind yet? Is he coming home yet? I cannot believe how I thought it was just going to be that easy. I am happy for the opportunity of growth and sounds like, Brit, you have grown amazingly. And to have an off day here and there is nothin... take it and leave it.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
