I managed to fully accept and allow that hug, zig... {{{{{zig}}}}} back at you.
Many MLCers don't know what is going on with them or may deny they are MLC. Some WAS may use MLC as an excuse or reason for their behaviours. "It's not you, it's me. Maybe I'm having a MLC."
This though:
"spoke to my dad and got the name of a good acctant - here it is. when you call ask him his rates and don't forget to tell him that you and i are friends and that you know my dad"
Speaks pretty clear of his... "confusion"... My W hasn't really said much like that. What she DOES do is forget things. She recently wrote me an email about the kid schedule. The next morning (like 8 hours later) she writes another email and says, "I don't remember what I wrote in my last email."
errm... maybe she could simply look in her sent items to refresh her memory?
Our journeys are about us. Our enjoyment... our happiness... is contingent on US... and how we react... which is based on our fears...
We ACT on desire... We REACT on fear...
So may your future have more actions... and less reactions...
{{{{{zig}}}}} back at you. 
