How Should I respond to her advances

[Arsene]

I guess another question i have, is what should i do about the following things which happen(ed). Was/am I wrong? Can this be damaging? How can i fix this? What should I stop/continue doing?

1. I've been kind to her as much as possible.
2. I often touch her, like I used to (fixing her hair, hand on the shoulder when she's at the computer, hand on the cheek when looking at her, etc...)
3. I offered to help her on the computer with some of her work and in exchange, I asked her to give me singing lesson.
4. I always make sure that our encounters are positive and that there is laughter.
5. In answer to a question she asked, the subject came on to my personal journey since she left and I expressed to her how I though I understood the transformation she was going through and as I was explaining what I understood she grabbed my hand and held it firmly, caressing my fingers with her thumb(lovingly?? compassionately??) and later, I heard her cry (as I was in another room crying silently myself).