more turtles by my side...

[zig]

ng - sweet girl - you sure know how to make a gal feel good.

thank you for all you said, and as i told busting - we ALL need each other on that picnic blanket. i am honored to be there with you, too:)

thanks too as you have generated a great discussion about what is the most difficult decision (or series of decisions) we make while in the ditches ..how to handle contact and boundaries..

yes - if there's any confusing area, it is this one - for all of us. and as i wrote all these posts today i began to see why for the first time. KD's post a few minutes ago sums it up well.

the boundaries are ever-shifting and that's the unease we feel constantly. we want a place to land , to sit tight until this thing blows over one way or the other, but the situations we are in, DEMAND that we stay shifting, ungrounded and constantly adjusting to what we are faced with.

it's the lesson in ultimate flexibility that we are learning here - and until we learn it , until we accept what it is we will stay in that panicky uneasy state, constantly second-guessing ourselves and fearful of what we are doing.

i have finally accepted that there is NO GROUND UNDER MY FEET and that it is okay for it to be that way.

i'll build my ground as i move forward, and so will you and everyone else.


((((( )))))

zig