I am so sorry for the pain you and your boys are experiencing. I think we all learn to look at the lives we have and be incredibly grateful. So we believe in playing up what we have - and that's not always a bad thing. However in our situations - we are forced to examine these aspects and allow ourselves to say maybe, just maybe - we deserve to be treated better.
Thoughts and prayers your way.
Irish
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time