Tales of the Travelling Toothbrush..? That has a good ring to it! LOL.
It is kind of funny if step back and look at the BS that comes from them. It is very much like watching a toddler, and then eventually a teenager. But you can only really see it and the humor when you stand back. If you're too close you'll get scars...
LIO, boundaries are a tricky thing with somebody in that frame of mind. Setting them can become more frustrating because you'll set yourself up for issues and it comes across as controlling. If you set them, put some thought into it first and make sure you can enforce them. Also, make sure they are for your sake only. You need boundaries, but you need to be sure they are about you only. Anything else is pointless IMHO.
Don't be afraid to have those emotions either LIO. You are human and having them is natural in this situation. Don't be embarrassed, but do try to keep them from the H. He already knows. It doesn't help anything to share them with him
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
