golf mom, Please don't beat yourself up because you delayed the process of divorce. In the beginning, we all hope for a reconciliation.
You did the right thing, by advising him that your attorney will be working on your financial information. It sounds to me like he's trying to pull a fast one and doesn't want to involve the lawyers.
He should not be relaying messages to you through your son and he needs to understand that this is not acceptable. Your email may have been a bit long for him to focus on, but we shall see.
I understand how you feel about him and the situation and you have every right to be angry. Be sure to take that anger out on something constructive, i.e., a pillow, a walk or something that requires a lot of physical exertion.
Do something special for yourself this weekend. You deserve it!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
