I haven't had time to look for ads for my W. I'll probably have more time once her part-time job ends. I'm not going to openly fret about it. I'll have faith that she will find a position that she enjoys, and that financial issues will be resolved. I will need to take the lead and be the spark that gets her started looking. I'll get to it when I can.
I came home from work on the day of our anniversary, and asked her if she wanted to go to our favorite Italian restaurant, that we get to maybe 1-2 times per year. I ordered Filet Mignon and my W had some seafood dish. She buzzed about the meal for days.
She keeps percolating ideas about a beach vacation. I told her about my concerns about taking a vacation, when she's going to be unemployed in six weeks. She keeps talking about it, so she must really need one. We'll keep this one shorter than our usual 10-day Puerto Rico trip, and maybe end up in Florida for a week. I said my piece, and don't have any better ideas, so will compromise on the length and destination of the vacation, and hold off a longer trip for the winter.
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"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
