Jannie, I'm sorry it's so painful. It's wonderful you are able to remain calm under these difficult, trying circumstances.

There's a lot of good advice here on this forum. When you start reading it, it will inspire and encourage you.

Keep posting and let us know what's going on.

Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway