crazyville, the things you sad about trying for years to tell your husband what you needed, him saying he would address it, and things never changing sounds exactly like what my wife has said. Also the part about the M being fine for me but not for her. I am only a week away from our D being final, and....she is right. I just passively let her hurt and leave. now I wish I had time to fix it all.
What kinds of things would you be looking for? Words don't seem to work, but I am not sure I have time for her to see actions.
