I have mentioned to my H that maybe he should think about talking to a counselor. This was a few months back when he was saying all the hateful things about himself. He told me "I'm not in the mood for all that." Whatever that is supposed to mean.
I think by getting professional help, they would have to start really looking at themselves. And we know that is certainly not on their to do list.
My IC told me all I can do is bring it up to him, I can't push him to go.
Hope this helps!
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
