zig, I love the commitment you have to H and yourself. I love your thinking and doing truly for you, at the same time taking advice and processing it.

I love how you enjoy your S10.

My IC's mantra is always "balance, balance, balance".

I think you have to trust your gut feeling sometimes and continue to evaluate your sitch as it progresses.

You are doing some great work and an inspiration to us all!!!

Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway