Yo..Kaffe...my thoughts exactly on OW!For quite some time now. From what I hear she almost seems a bit jealous when he's with his girls! Infact according to D12 she kinda made a little "dig" on her when D12 was teasing her Dad in the toy section at Walmart! Of course that makes mamma bear's hair stand up on end, but there's no reason to. D12 can handle herself, and I actually still have enough faith in XH that he will NOT tolerate that treatment of his girls by any OW.
WOW I've been reading M Go Blue for the past hour!
Thank you Cadet for bringing those forward again! It helps so much to hear it from an MLCer that makes it through the tunnel. It really does.
It helps me see I really am not crazy.
It really validates that all the severe losses we've had set this off in XH. We lost 4 very significant people in our lives, his job of 15 years which meant he lost his dream, and damn near his life. NO WONDER.
And reading this gives me the comfort to really accept that it's ok to move on and go our separate ways...even if he's going completely backwards.
It also helps me see there still just may be hope for XH.
