Can you recommend a link or enlighten me again on why they're the opposite of what they were and why they are "pod people" now?
Honestly all it feels and looks like is that I truly was the reason he made the choice to avoid me and the kids like the plague while he was at home.
At first I did think she was hanging back in order to allow XH to engage with the girls. However 7 months later, she will have only gone with XH and the girls 2 times. Christmas Day to his mothers and last week shopping. Next week they're all going to the county fair and XH is allowing a friend to accompany D12. It sounds like he asks her to go everywhere and she always says no.
I will check out M go Blue's posts. I was checking them out yesterday.
Im reading Gary Zukav in order for me to get in touch with these emotions and to manage them rather than try and put a lid on them, ignore them, and just keep distracting myself in hopes that eventually I will just not care anymore. Believe me I've been trying for over a year now. I've come a long way but some buttons just can't help but get pushed.
