I’d say so. I never thought I had it coming. If XW had followed a guide rather than listened to her supporters she might be doing better financially.
I have heard it said divorce financially favors the H. I suspect that is true at least in my case.
Advina, IMO you are wise to do the research now. My L asked me how I wanted to proceed, and I told him to keep it fair, even so she is coming out on the short end, primarily due to decisions she made without understanding the potential outcomes. She became so focused on one aspect (1/2 the 401K) that she and her L omitted other items when the documents were drawn up. I am not inclined to make it up at this time.
KML is right, keep it under the radar.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill