Sounds familiar, well before she filed XW called me when I was 6 time zones away leaving messages on my voicemail asking me to cosign her home loan. Ahhh No. Shortly after that I got the “Then there is nothing else I need you for” speech. It hurt, then I got to thinking about how this was an attempt to manipulate and let it go.

Try and find the bigger picture rather than react in the emotions of the moment. There are more hurdles to come. Charge your L with making the arguments and stay out of the drama as much as possible. That is but one of the reasons I hired mine. If I am ever asked why that is the reason I am using.

It isn’t over until you are done and decide it is over. I do not believe in preordained destiny your future isn’t written yet and she may still just decide you are the better option. You are. Believe it

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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill