I removed all our non-mutual friends. And I will not use Reggie's login again.
However if I want to ask my son to help around my house, I will.
They are men, it shouldn't look as bad as it does or need a landscaper but if you want to spend your money that way it's your call.
I just want the house to look as it did while I lived there until it's out of my name, at that point I won't have any input. Hopefully that happens very soon. and it makes me -- and my decision to have an affair and leave my family -- look bad, and I don't want people driving by the house and thinking poorly of me, like "why isn't their father out there helping them with those things???"
