HRM your thread made me cry because I can relate so much to it and it's NOT just me going through this. I had the exact conversation with H (well through text since he spent the whole phone conversation talking about how I was keeping him from his life and moving on). Our H's are close in age (33) but the only difference is that H already moved out to an apartment 2 months ago... but H is here every day from 6-12p, and here every weekend 'for' S(5) but on his own at nights (in an unfurnished, no bowls/plates/forks eating out of a bag sitting on the floor every night setting). Guess I should start my own thread in MLC wink

How are you so patient? I mean does it just come to you? I am more fiery, and I am desperately trying so hard to not be. I think I need to start to apply Snodderly's wisdom. - I didn't think about MLC's acting like 2 year olds. IT is true. My S never went through that period, but I secretly have considered my H's MLC to be training for when S is a teenager.


Me& h + S
M: 13 t: 14

H moved 2/12. Own apt 05/12, EAs, PAs, gfriends, oh my!
I'm done. 12/12

"I get knocked down, but I get up again.. you're never gonna keep me down" Chumbawumba