I just want to be friends...Pt3

[breakdownbill]

Well what do you know - your H is asking you to do stuff with him again

Wow things are really looking up for you guys.

The cold showers? I might wait for the shower to break to try that one ;-)

I completely agree with you about finding yourself again. It really is the only way to be happy. Nobody's perfect and making improvements to how we communicate, behave and look is more about being at your best rather than getting a personality transplant.

If you feel good, then you are good.

I see where you are coming from

So, if you want to stand your ground and move out because that is what you would have done before your M, that's exactly what you do

I'm still undecided on this one, I think it would be best for me as an individual to move out, but not the best for my children.

It's also pretty hard to make any kind of headway when there is another person in the picture.

I'm focusing on me and my kids and pretty soon i'll be having that R talk with my W, because things need to move in one direction or another.

When you don't trust your partner and they don't respect you - something has to change that, because without those 2 things, everything else between us doesn't mean a thing.

Back to you YC, I really think that know you have regained your confidence and desire for what you want out of life, things are falling into place on their own on a way.

Your goals that you posted the other day were really positive as well.

I'm really happy things are going well for you, keep us posted.

Bill