W has been contacting both my brothers. She has started th process to drop the order of protection but it could be a few weeks. In the meantime she is worried about paying bills. I have always taken care of it. I cannot have any contact with her or go to the house so she is going to have to figure it out. I have shown her and she is pretty smart so I am confidant that she can do it. There is money in the bank and she has been paid. I am not sure what she expects me to do. My hands are really tied right now. I feel sad for her. She is reaching out for my help but I can't.