You are right Starsky, I totally agree. I have been doing too well to let him do this now. It truly makes me shake my head and wonder most days. I don't know this person at all.
This is the response I just got and from here on out, I will use Cozi or an intermediary
I removed all our non-mutual friends. And I will not use Reggie's login again.
However if I want to ask my son to help around my house, I will.
They are men, it shouldn't look as bad as it does or need a landscaper but if you want to spend your money that way it's your call.
I just want the house to look as it did while I lived there until it's out of my name, at that point I won't have any input. Hopefully that happens very soon.