So I was willing to forgive and move past the facebook stalking, only to have him attempt pulling the strings behind the scenes this morning. S18 got up and said "when are the landscapers coming back to do the garden, dad told me to go out and weed today"
Sigh, I tensed up immediately.
I called him at work and it didn't go as well as I would hope so I took it to email. Better to have the written trail anyway. So I sent the following and praying he gets it this time...
I am keeping to email because honestly I just can't talk to you, and don't want to talk to you
My point is you have no right to overstep my boundaries, and I won't allow it.
Under my roof (where I live, I realize the house is still yours too) I have control over what happens, what the kids help with, and how it gets done
I don't need you pulling the strings like that, it is none of your business.
It always comes back to this, and it is getting shorter and shorter between times I say it
Just leave me alone, it is easier on both of us, just don't talk to me at all.
I was willing to forgive your facebook stalking and less than 24 hours later you are trying to play puppet master.
Just focus on your life, moving forward, time with your kids and leave me alone
