you are doing good. dont think you arent. being happy for you is key. dont worry so much about what he is doing. he is probably struggling but it is his struggle. you have no control. i like how you want to keep the road home smooth. that is good. you dont have to drive him home tho. be happy with you, stick to your boundries, be the attractive person you are. things have a way of working out.
you may never R nd that is hard to deal with. it has to be done for you to be truly happy. not to hijack..i stopped worrying about W and OM's. stopped trying to inguence her. i decided to be happy with me. she has noticed and it doesnt matter to me. OM called me yesterday and wanted to talk so i met him. he wanted advice because she broke his heart! lmfao!!!! really? what was i supposed to say to that? it is to bizarre. then she started asking me for help. i responded politely when i had time. i have no hard feelings. today i had court for my protection order. it was dropped. she didtt show up.
my point is, worry about you. when you become happy and live the way you want, the world is a shiny beautiful place. the WAS have their struggles as we do. it is their burden to bear. when you are the strong confident one i know you can be things work out. might not be how you want. there are powers greater than us at work. karma, god whatever. if you live right, right things happen.
zig, you are a rockstar. keep your head up. you will know what YOU need to do. you are smart.
