DaddyLongShanks, Thanks for your kind words. They really help me feel better about myself. I guess I keep falling into that mentality of competing with the OM. I keep wanting to convince my wife that we can work things out, but that is just the wrong action to take. I've got to keep on working on myself and let her go. I've been successful early this week, but it has been tougher this week, especially when she gave me some hope on Wednesday that we could work it out, but then dashed my hopes the next day. Turns out they have a fight, and she showed that I really am the backup, all kind when fighting and cold when it was over. I was cautious about her suddenly being sweet to me, and I was right to do so, but it still hurts.
Anyway, I will definitely try the vitamins. I am working out every day and trying to watch my health. I've lost a lot of weight, over 20 pounds, since D-Day.
____________________________________ Me: 42 WW: 46 Married: 14y D-Day: 5/18/2012 D 12, S 8 Status: In my room, but A Continues