Yes, I definitely feel that way, that once we open ourself to accepting change, that we never stop....
The day I stop being open to change, is the day they are chunking clay on me...
You have come a long way, and you will continue to see things in a new light.
One thing I noticed is, that you have told your wife ?
While I realize that you do have some communication with her, I would recommend keeping that silent.
When that change becomes a part of your life, that you are living just for you ? Then you won't have to 'tell' her anything...
They will become part of your actions, which speak way louder than words..
It is all part of "acting as if". Just living your life, knowing that whatever gets thrown your way, YOU can handle. Because you have taken the time to learn about yourself, and accept criticism in a positive way. You learn what "your" truth is, and you learn how to let the un-truth slide off of you, like water off of a Duck's back...
You have come a long way, yet there is still so much to do...
How about your new list of goals for yourself ?
How about you, plan to find time for just you....One afternoon each weekend, and Two nights a week...
Is that something that you can find acceptable ?
Even if you take a walk for an hour one of those nights....
Or you go to the local Coffee Shop every Saturday afternoon..
