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I haven't posted to you in a while but I have been reading along.

I see a lot of pats on the back for all that you have accomplished and while I think you have come a long way, there is still so much more...

You posted about wondering about the "work" that others talk about doing on here...

You are at the beginning of that now I think.

Or at least ready for it.

You are seeing the "butterfly effect" that your learning better communication patterns is having in your conversations with your H.

That is wonderful. Even if it doesn't lead to reconcilitation, better communication tools are a wonderful thing to have.

I like your bootcamp idea... I have waited a long time to see you begin to actually focus on yourself.

So where are you going from here?


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox