I tried that, but she wouldn't change partners and kept saying that people would think it was strange that they didn't dance together, plus the teacher is really good friends with the OM outside of the dancing, so it would be awkward to explain for her.
I did start a dancing class with my w in Sept, but my w stopped coming with me in the 2nd term and I kept it up on my own up until recently. So she could dance with me, she doesn't want to dance at a basic level though (or with me).
You see this is the big question, because I have no idea what is going on between them. I mean, she may have been telling me the truth when she said they just dance together now and don't have any contact outside of dancing. (i don't really buy that).
They could be having a full on affair and are very discreet and are waiting for me to move out.
To be honest I haven't got a clue what is going on, but I know while they are still in contact it's not over.
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13
