Yeah I haven't got a problem with her dancing with me or other people, just him. To change class she would have to drop back a few levels and be separated from her other friends there as well. She is very good at the ballroom, latin dancing and I know she loves dancing, it's like a form of expression.
The OM? She hasn't talked to me much about him, in fact very little and that was only the 1st couple of days post that revelation when I was asking her lots of questions.
She was just really vague and I remember her saying he wasn't a sleaze (I'm not either) and he treated me good.
I know he's got kids and is divorced and is in his mid to late 40's.
I also know that she has been discussing all our issues with him since last summer and that he got her a couple of dancing dvd's at Christmas.
There is similarities actually when I think about it from how me & my W got together. We met at work and were friends at first and got closer over a few months.
Whereas they met at dancing, became dance partners, then friends, then took it further than they should have.
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13
