Sorry your decree notification came that way, Kolja. It sounds like alot of other things are shaping up pretty well for you now.

And kudos to you for not owning or feeling responsible or, alternatively, feeling vindicated or gloating over your xW's apparent continued unhappiness. You seem to just see it for what it is and let it be hers -- that's the epitome of detachment.

What's up for you in Japan? Been there before? Stay away from Fukushima!

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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