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gunny, have fun in Alaska. That sounds awesome!

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I finally said enough of planning for the future, the future is now(at least in this instance),

gunny, I really like the spirit of this! smile I have been telling myself that frequently over last 17 months or so.


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Gunny, Alaska? Outstanding! Remember BAMCIS?
At Bridgeport I was taught COLD for cold weather.
Keep it Clean
Avoid Overheating
Wear it Loose and it Layers
Keep Dry

Hopefully I’ll be 20 feet up a tree come October. Have a great time up North!


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hey stunned, thanks for the shoutout, continue to lean forward! Will give you more info as I approach. Did you ever make it out there on duty?


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Gunny good to hear that you are doing ok. My friend just came from Alaska he said it was awesome. Loved the state. Have a blast buddy.


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Anchorage is great! I love that town. I'm tad in Japan right now, no wifi in the room, and typing on the phone in the lobby, but I'll write some of my favorites for you when I get home.


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Hey kolja,
Looking forward to some good scoop on things to see in Anchorage, thanks!


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My stbxw called me yesterday, 3 time in one week. She wanted to know how our dog was doing. We had a very pleasant conversation. I have talked to her more in two weeks than I have talked in 10 months. What gives? Any thoughts from the seasoned vets out there?


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ummm... what you're doing is working...?

Was this the only "pleasure" contact and the rest was all business?

Something is going on. Only time will tell what. We'll see if it becomes a pattern. Nice and slow. Don't scare her away.

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oh...

and you know...

no expectations... grin

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THANKS KAFFE,
The three times I actually spoke to her on the phone since last october were for business purposes, i.e. taxes, sale of property, etc. About a month ago we had to talk about divorce proceedings and she asked me if i would like to take the dog for a month in the summer.

We talked twice in the last two weeks to make arrangements for transfer. We met this past sunday, and she emailed and called me yesterday to see how the pooch was.

Every encounter has been friendly and without rancor. I am not expecting anything, but something in the back of my atavistic brain is saying something is different, dont know how to articulate it, and definately am not getting excited or riled up.

Thank you for your two cents, much appreciated!


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